Inspirations

Because it's all about the little things

At GOOD AT YOU --- you won't get glitz and glam and promises of happily ever after in 30 days or less. 

 

What you WILL get is an authentic connection.

You'll get someone who knows you --your strengths....your weaknesses. 

Someone who cares deeply about you and is committed to you having the most fulfilled and joyous life that you can possibly have.

 

 There's a popular quote that says "CHANGE HAPPENS OUTSIDE OF OUR COMFORT ZONE". While it's not fun to admit....the fact is, it's pretty much true.

 

Real change isn't going to happen from you sitting around being comfortable and doing what you've been doing for years. It's about getting out of your comfort zone. And my job will be to do what I need to do to help you have some major shifts and breakthroughs in your love life!  At the end of our time working together....you'll never again have to wonder if maybe there's something wrong with you. That maybe you have some huge blind spot that's holding you back from love. You won't have to wonder if you're being too picky. Or if there's something you're doing that's messing things up with the men you are most drawn to. You will know yourself in the deepest way possible...and you will be CLEAR.

 

  To get you there -- I will be lovingly calling you out when I smell bullshit -- and holding a mirror up to the places that might be challenging for you to look at. I will hold a fire under your ass when you want to quit. And I will be your biggest supporter -- there cheering you on throughout the whole process.​

 

No more burning your friends out with all your spinning thoughts that overwhelm you when you're dating. No more wondering if there's something you could be doing differently. No more having no answer when people annoyingly ask you, "I don't understand, why are you still single". (God, how I always hated that question!!)

 

Over the last decade, I have worked with literally thousands of people on their love and dating lives. I've heard their stories. Seen there blind spots. Felt the pain of longing in their hearts and the ache of their frustrations. And I can say with confidence, that I truly can help you....IF you are willing to fully commit and do the work. 

 

Good at you is not about a 'quick fix'. It's about having the courage to dig in and go deep. With me right there by your side of course. As a psychotherapist, I kind of can't help but go deep....so know that when you complete this process...all stones will be turned :) ,